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Why we always take on more: Ego, fear, and control

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Your calendar is always full: does it reassure you, or does it exhaust you?

The urge to be recognized for what you do, each “I have no choice” that hides a fear, every free slot filled at once: three quiet forces often decide for us. This module teaches you to spot them in yourself, to distinguish what energizes you from what exhausts you, and to discover what a time slot with nothing planned can free up.

~20 min at your own paceKey skill: Self-Awareness and BehaviorAvailable in FR + ENNo prerequisites

What you’ll take away

  • a clear-sighted view of what your ego seeks when you take on more commitments
  • the question that exposes the fear behind every “I have no choice”
  • a practice for letting go of control: a daily time slot you deliberately leave free

Who it’s for

Managers and team members who keep taking on more and sense that workload alone does not explain it.

Learning objectives

  1. Recognize the three forces behind taking on more at work: the quest for recognition, fears, and the need for control.
  2. Distinguish work commitments you choose, which energize you, from those you endure, and dare to step back from the latter.
  3. Expose the fear behind an “I have no choice”—what am I really risking?—then dare to say no or ask for help.
  4. Set aside a short slot of empty time for creativity each day, with no meetings or tasks: this is often where the best ideas emerge.

How does this module work?

The steps of the Adaptive module.

  1. Self-assessmentOn nine dimensions, to gauge current habits and guide the practice.
  2. Expert videoA ~10 min video with three pauses for reflection.
  3. Practice scenariosThe first two scenarios chosen from the self-assessment, then sixteen more, optional. Every answer gets feedback: what it leads to, and one way to improve.
  4. Dated commitmentOne action to try, written by the learner or chosen from the suggestions.
  5. Memo to downloadKey takeaways, questions, commitment, personal notes, and checklists.

Duration: ~20 min. Excluding bonus practice scenarios and optional in-depth content.

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Let’s discuss your goals and where this module fits in your training program.