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Stuck on a decision: Understand the conflict inside you

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Part of you wants to accept, another wants to refuse—and while they argue, nothing moves forward.

This back-and-forth has a logic: each voice inside you defends something that matters—balance, ambition, the need to be useful. This module teaches you to recognize them, to calm the one that condemns instead of helping, and to stop letting them decide for you or slip unnoticed into your team’s debates.

~20 min at your own paceKey skill: Decision-Making and JudgmentAvailable in FR + ENNo prerequisites

What you’ll take away

  • the three questions to take stock of what is in conflict inside you
  • the Judge’s profile, never more lucid than the others despite its confidence
  • the principle that changes everything: what you feed grows, what you ignore weakens

Who it’s for

Anyone who wants to decide clearly by making peace with their conflicting inner voices.

Learning objectives

  1. Understand where indecision comes from: aspects of yourself, shaped by experience, that clash over every major choice.
  2. Identify your conflicting aspects with three questions: which ones are at war, what they defend, and which ones you are feeding.
  3. Unmask the inner Judge, the voice that condemns without clarifying and sustains the conflict instead of resolving it.
  4. Recognize your inner tug-of-war projected onto team debates, to contribute to Lencioni’s productive conflict.

How does this module work?

The steps of the Adaptive module.

  1. Self-assessmentOn nine dimensions, to gauge current habits and guide the practice.
  2. Expert videoA ~10 min video with three pauses for reflection.
  3. Practice scenariosThe first two scenarios chosen from the self-assessment, then sixteen more, optional. Every answer gets feedback: what it leads to, and one way to improve.
  4. Dated commitmentOne action to try, written by the learner or chosen from the suggestions.
  5. Memo to downloadKey takeaways, questions, commitment, personal notes, and checklists.

Duration: ~20 min. Excluding bonus practice scenarios and optional in-depth content.

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Let’s discuss your goals and where this module fits in your training program.